I don’t improve my clients’ lives, I transform them. Often radically.
I relish creating an environment where people get more out of themselves, where they become more of who they really are. I’m the whetstone that sharpens them so they can slice through anything.
If someone asks me:
“What makes you qualified to be a whole life mentor?”
First of all, I’ve built a great life for myself, one that fits who I am perfect.
I grew up half poor; half medium in a poor downtown area in Tehran; Iran (at the End of Shahpour St. & Amiriah place where people shit at their neighbor’s door.
I was very good at getting fantastic grades at school & high school, but average grades in universities and famous and popular in school and universities.
I spent a year working in construction with my father in the age of 15
And spent working in fashion retail and sale in the age of 16 to 17.
Then, 18 months in real estate at the age of 18th again under my father’s supervision.
I got my degree in film directory at the age of 14. And got another degree in Film Making at 16.
And spent working in the fashion industry as a retailer in the age of 16 for 1 or 1.5 years which I found inspiring.
I got accepted in Med School in Tehran Azad University in 2000 and left it unfinished
in search for continuing my education at Pune; India
In 2010 with almost no money and back then, I experienced a traumatic emotional breakdown which I was doubtful if I can get my ass back on the scene again!
Since I can recall, I had a solid general English due to immersing myself in listening to an internationally reputable podcast in literally any field which could attract my attention. We have a history of being good at English in our family and I have to tell you guys, being more than average in it is somehow in my blood.
Then after Med School; I started in Ferguson College (British college in India) in Psych major despite my initial lack of interest; After a while, I got very good at it and The Feedbacks from a friend and other people was very motivating for me to go on Educating myself more and more.
Reading fast and faster and more and more
Thinking and researching a lot
And bonding Education with Experiences; suddenly made me one of the Best in my carrier
And there is too much here to talk about, but I’m gonna pass because I came to believe it’s all about
Being good at Interpretation
And I’m being good what I do has nothing to do with formal education in universities.
I realized I have to get more Experiences in Every aspect other than what I read in colleges and universities
And I was short-handed in money in a strange country, So I began to these things below :
1-photography in hotels
2-videography for models
3- It made me understand the need for learning about the fashion industry and women’s Dress design more scientifically
4-learning a lot about Lingerie and boudoir
After finishing university; I came back to My motherland: Iran Tehran
And after about 2 years I met someone Very Very Very Special; my wife
At first, we were just good close friends for 1.5 years. Then, we move together and still, we haven’t got married but It is going to happen in the near future
She was such an inspiration without her knowing; for what I am and Who I am now.
When I set up my coaching practice at 33; she was the one who encouraged me and helped me in first hand
I was zero in pocket and bank account and had to start from scratch.
But soon I became one the Best and after 3-5 yrs I was known as the best-unlicensed therapist and Best Mentor of my whole country and region (Middle East)
For the first 13 years of my life, I was useless with women, but after that, it was completely the opposite
And for most of my life, I was not okay in the body shape; never fat but mostly skinny
Now I do what I love, with the people I love.
I couldn’t possibly be happier with my life. And my life is all about my friends and the quality of my lifestyle
Still haven’t reached my goals in money-making and honestly, it’s not my priority;
I love having a lot of money though.
I love eating at the best restaurants everywhere I go.
I love spending time in nice hotels all around the world.
And l love wearing elegantly.
When I say ‘You can have it all’, I’m speaking from experience, not just repeating a fancy catchphrase.
I believe, beyond any doubt, that I can be anyone, have anything and be anyone I want.
I also believe that everything I’ve got, you may have as well, and more. If you’re willing to do the work, that is.
Over the last eight years, I’ve spent around 5000 hours mentoring around 1000 people mostly women on a one-to-one basis; I’ve spoken at around hundreds live and online events in a wide variety of personal development and some business topics;
Without a doubt, I have made a lot of Free voices and videos in the field of Changing past cultural issues in the Middle East
Today I write a little; Speak a lot and, Do coaching and mostly mentoring which I’m best at and get results most.
I absolutely believe in mentoring
I mean being present almost whenever my client wants me; needs me, or I think I should be there for them even when don’t think they need me; in presence; on the phone or WhatsApp and …
If they ready which I and only I decide if they are; I change them Radically in 6-9 months.
Over the years, I’ve seen the profound effects it has had on my clients, as well as experiencing it on myself.
Other things about me:
• I’m OCD in certain matters with a few people which I care most and sometimes with my Clients
-I say fuck a lot.
-I Say Shit a lot
-Generally, I’ve got a dirty mouth that it’s not annoying for my friends
-I’m not always happy.
-I’m 38 and I love to drive dangerously.
-I can’t handle the heat and I love the half cloudy sky
-I love spicy food, not the Indian level of course.
-I love animals but I’m not a vegan yet although I love vegan food as much as red meat
-I respect animals but, I don’t like living with them or I really can’t take care of them; maybe I don’t have time really
-I love being around nature but also I personally can’t take care of them; watering them or such as.
-I don’t joke a lot but when I can make people laugh
-I am radical open-minded sometimes strangers who don’t know me might be offended
-I’m prepared and I have tried everything once at least; Except for sex with a man.
-I am as materialistic as I am spiritual and I am compassionate more than I am Egocentric
-l love cooking but only when I love cooking and almost all the time it turns out very good and tasty
-I don’t watch the news, I do spend more time watching TV Series in any genre than anyone I know and I can interpret them to the excellence and people really enjoy watching series with me rather than they watch alone
-I used to think that I’m a man and therefore I can’t wear pink. Now I think that I’m the man and therefore I can wear whatever the hell I want.
• I know a lot about most things, but there are a few things I know exceptionally well: people, personal development, and psychology of success and happiness and relationships and body language and facial expressions and movies and fashion
But mostly I know people; their desire; their faults; their goodness; their everything; and I can predict and guess them more than everyone I know
– I have a taste for good food in any kind from any country
I’ve got a good taste in architecture; interior design; clothes; colors; people, that why I’m very proud of my friend’s course I choose them accordingly and carefully
And that doesn’t mean I’m never wrong!
-I’m a feminist despite my very powerful urge for men and women to be equal in Eeeeeevery thing; I mean it; in Eveeeeeeery thing, and massive on racial equality, religious equality, sexual orientation equality; equality, period.
They call me :
Dominatrix of Mentoring
Best in Psycho Therapy
Most Understanding In Strange And New Ppl
-I can be very Silent and Calm when I disagree with someone or a crowd that they never know my real opinion Because they don’t pay me to indulge and Express my Opinion
And I believe you can’t change someone’s belief
-My untamed nature and unwillingness to blindly obey authority got me in trouble with some teachers and bosses (and consequently fired from a couple of places). From a very young age, I’ve followed the rules that make sense to me and spoken out against the ones that don’t.